Her story
Femke has been married for six years and has a spreadsheet for everything except the fun parts. She and her husband opened their relationship after a long, practical conversation about what they both wanted — and they have been refining the details ever since.
She works in design, cycles everywhere, and has no patience for passive aggression. She likes mature couples who can say what they mean, laugh at themselves, and treat consent as a normal part of the conversation rather than an awkward pause.
“Clear is kind. Everything else is noise.”
Things she loves
- Cycling
- Festivals
- Design
- Open conversations
Her ideal partner
- Mature, direct couples
- Clear consent
- A relaxed, adult approach
What she is looking for
Mature, direct couples. If that sounds like you, say hello with a little detail — not just “hey”.
